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I bought a new number (sim card) from a new service provider. After installing and activating the number i got a few smses that came one after another. I just skimmed through but one caught my attention. The excerpt goes, u have successfully bought/ paid for a song. RM1.50 have been deducted from your credit. This subscription will continue to deduct your money/ credit weekly. W orld T aekwondo F ederation! they just deducted my money without my consent. So this is how they make money. I didn't know that they've set the subscription by default. But i didn't see any use of a caller ring tone to me so u need to consult me before taking my money. Money doesn't grow on trees.

I want to quote a profound phrase that i heard today that goes "Bak kata pepatah harimau mati meninggalkan belang, Pn Yul belum mati lagi tapi meninggalkan nama..". It was about one of our work mate who is leaving to work at another place. We fixed her a farewell party and gave her an oven, literally. There was not a dry pair of eyes in the house including her who got an oven. She's been there for ten years, I arrived at her last three, two and a half, two and a quarter to be exact. She had been a sister and an inspiration to all. Her swiftness and dedication are truly an admiration. So folk if U want an oven starts filling the e-tukar now.

At the third phases of your child life (13 upwards) it is encouraged that parents be friend with their children. Teenagers need to be closely monitored yet respected. Close monitor doesn't mean treating them with prejudice instead put reason up front to rationale parent's actions of a rationale action of course. With all the physical changes and increased sex drive privacy is a necessity. Gets your children consent over periodical room and belongings inspection to tell them that you respect their privacy yet this is your house and don't bring illegal stuff inside your house and their life. Diary, smses and letters are considered private so treat like one, if u need to read those make sure they read it first and they don't know u have read it and don't humiliate them by telling them u read their diary, letters and smes. If u found something unpleasant in there, consult them don't interrogate because they're not criminals. Teenagers need to be heard. Listen to...

What U shouldn't do when u are old is giving free lecture of a subject u totally unfamiliar of trying to hide the fact that u are an ignorance once. People hate hypocrite. Ignoramus. At their early life they refused to study, note: free education are available at the mosque. At the later age when retired they start reading books, listening to the radio and TV. Basically learning without an expert guidance is learning from Mr Satan himself. Out of sudden, one day they are found giving sermon and advices free of charge to others. All quotes given are based merely on their own interpretation without the guidance of an expert, thus created a new scholar. Everyday they sit on the porch hoping for others to make mistake so that they can start lecturing when they see one. These free sermon, advices and lecture are given so that others see them as pious men, hiding the fact that they are the ignorant brat. What they are unaware of is hypocrite generates much more hatred and shines more ign...

Once a parent asked me to scold his teenage child who he claimed is avoiding him. Apparently his teaming up to jump on his child. I asked the parent in return did he have any idea to why his child behave in that particular manner? He said because of bad influenced from his child company. Eventually, that what all losers do, blame others. Islam proposes three phases in raising children, the first seven years after birth, the second seven years and the third seven years. The first seven years, adores your child, play with them and talk to them, miss this, they won't talk to u later too much of this they'd turn aggressive and egocentric. The second seven years, discipline them, after installing love and affection its time to discipline them, miss this, they won't respect you, too much of this u've just created a psycho. The third phase begin at 13 or 14 years old, Islam encourages parents to be friend with their child as at this age they're pre-adult and delicate, des...

Secret to happiness. Your parents live to see U live better. How do u repay them is not how much money u send them per month. It's what they can tell people about their children achievement. YOU, that is their ultimate achievement. Scores in every major examinations. earned a place at the university. get a good job and a good husband or wife, husband especially. The benchmark is when they're not hesitant to tell people about U their child in any conversation they're in. My daughter's got straight A's in SPM? She's an excellent student. Now she's studying at Uni.... (This was before when very few selective people only can further their study at Uni, nowadays everybody can get a degree, not fun anymore.) Now engaged to a successful organic farmer. Her brother run his own internet business (then working with government was the most prestige, now blergh /no its time to throw away the walking stick) Money is one of the tool of happiness but in their age money doe...

ALLAH said in the Holy Quran (And of everything We have created pairs, that you may remember. Ad-Dhariyat: 49). Then the Holy Quran give example from the simplest to the complex, there is day and night, heaven and earth, men and women, man's rights and woman's rights, husband's right and wife's rights, parent's rights and child's rights. Pairs, yin yang, push pull. Islam mean peace. Peace achieved when there is balance. The balance requires the pairs mutually benefit each other. A wife observes husband's rights and a husband observes wife's rights. A child observes parent's rights and parents observe child's rights. There is no one sided coin, both are outlined and prescribed in Islam. At the other end of peace is chaos. Chaos emerge when the other side is ignored. We took that are in favor of us and left that are not. A husband expects his wife to observe his right but ignored his wife's rights. A parent ask an Ustaz of his rights to sco...