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THIS IS HOW THEY MAKE MONEY

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I bought a new number (sim card) from a new service provider. After installing and activating the number i got a few smses that came one after another. I just skimmed through but one caught my attention. The excerpt goes, u have successfully bought/ paid for a song. RM1.50 have been deducted from your credit. This subscription will continue to deduct your money/ credit weekly. W orld T aekwondo F ederation! they just deducted my money without my consent. So this is how they make money. I didn't know that they've set the subscription by default. But i didn't see any use of a caller ring tone to me so u need to consult me before taking my money. Money doesn't grow on trees.

A PROFOUND PHRASE

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I want to quote a profound phrase that i heard today that goes "Bak kata pepatah harimau mati meninggalkan belang, Pn Yul belum mati lagi tapi meninggalkan nama..". It was about one of our work mate who is leaving to work at another place. We fixed her a farewell party and gave her an oven, literally. There was not a dry pair of eyes in the house including her who got an oven. She's been there for ten years, I arrived at her last three, two and a half, two and a quarter to be exact. She had been a sister and an inspiration to all. Her swiftness and dedication are truly an admiration. So folk if U want an oven starts filling the e-tukar now.

RAISING TEENAGERS

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At the third phases of your child life (13 upwards) it is encouraged that parents be friend with their children. Teenagers need to be closely monitored yet respected. Close monitor doesn't mean treating them with prejudice instead put reason up front to rationale parent's actions of a rationale action of course. With all the physical changes and increased sex drive privacy is a necessity. Gets your children consent over periodical room and belongings inspection to tell them that you respect their privacy yet this is your house and don't bring illegal stuff inside your house and their life. Diary, smses and letters are considered private so treat like one, if u need to read those make sure they read it first and they don't know u have read it and don't humiliate them by telling them u read their diary, letters and smes. If u found something unpleasant in there, consult them don't interrogate because they're not criminals. Teenagers need to be heard. Listen to

THE IGNORANCE

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What U shouldn't do when u are old is giving free lecture of a subject u totally unfamiliar of trying to hide the fact that u are an ignorance once. People hate hypocrite. Ignoramus. At their early life they refused to study, note: free education are available at the mosque. At the later age when retired they start reading books, listening to the radio and TV. Basically learning without an expert guidance is learning from Mr Satan himself. Out of sudden, one day they are found giving sermon and advices free of charge to others. All quotes given are based merely on their own interpretation without the guidance of an expert, thus created a new scholar. Everyday they sit on the porch hoping for others to make mistake so that they can start lecturing when they see one. These free sermon, advices and lecture are given so that others see them as pious men, hiding the fact that they are the ignorant brat. What they are unaware of is hypocrite generates much more hatred and shines more ign

THE THREE PHASES IN RAISING CHILDREN

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Once a parent asked me to scold his teenage child who he claimed is avoiding him. Apparently his teaming up to jump on his child. I asked the parent in return did he have any idea to why his child behave in that particular manner? He said because of bad influenced from his child company. Eventually, that what all losers do, blame others. Islam proposes three phases in raising children, the first seven years after birth, the second seven years and the third seven years. The first seven years, adores your child, play with them and talk to them, miss this, they won't talk to u later too much of this they'd turn aggressive and egocentric. The second seven years, discipline them, after installing love and affection its time to discipline them, miss this, they won't respect you, too much of this u've just created a psycho. The third phase begin at 13 or 14 years old, Islam encourages parents to be friend with their child as at this age they're pre-adult and delicate, des

HAPPY PARENTS

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Secret to happiness. Your parents live to see U live better. How do u repay them is not how much money u send them per month. It's what they can tell people about their children achievement. YOU, that is their ultimate achievement. Scores in every major examinations. earned a place at the university. get a good job and a good husband or wife, husband especially. The benchmark is when they're not hesitant to tell people about U their child in any conversation they're in. My daughter's got straight A's in SPM? She's an excellent student. Now she's studying at Uni.... (This was before when very few selective people only can further their study at Uni, nowadays everybody can get a degree, not fun anymore.) Now engaged to a successful organic farmer. Her brother run his own internet business (then working with government was the most prestige, now blergh /no its time to throw away the walking stick) Money is one of the tool of happiness but in their age money doe

THE BALANCE FACTOR

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ALLAH said in the Holy Quran (And of everything We have created pairs, that you may remember. Ad-Dhariyat: 49). Then the Holy Quran give example from the simplest to the complex, there is day and night, heaven and earth, men and women, man's rights and woman's rights, husband's right and wife's rights, parent's rights and child's rights. Pairs, yin yang, push pull. Islam mean peace. Peace achieved when there is balance. The balance requires the pairs mutually benefit each other. A wife observes husband's rights and a husband observes wife's rights. A child observes parent's rights and parents observe child's rights. There is no one sided coin, both are outlined and prescribed in Islam. At the other end of peace is chaos. Chaos emerge when the other side is ignored. We took that are in favor of us and left that are not. A husband expects his wife to observe his right but ignored his wife's rights. A parent ask an Ustaz of his rights to sco

FINDLAND SCHOOLS GET BEST RESULTS

Why do Finland’s schools get the best results? By Tom Burridge BBC World News America, Helsinki Last year more than 100 foreign delegations and governments visited Helsinki, hoping to learn the secret of their schools’ success. In 2006, Finland’s pupils scored the highest average results in science and reading in the whole of the developed world. In the OECD’s exams for 15 year-olds, known as PISA, they also came second in maths, beaten only by teenagers in South Korea. This isn’t a one-off: in previous PISA tests Finland also came out top. [ Read More Here ] The extract of their tactics: 1. Provison of additional teacher to those (pupils) who struggle with all pupils are kept in the same classroom.* 2. Primary and secondary schooling is combined to avoid potentially disruptive transition. 3. The same teacher lead the same class with the same pupils for several years.* 4. School start at the age of seven before then children learn best when playing. 5. Parents have a culture of reading

1 MALAYSIA IN PI MAI PI MAI TANG TU

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Still remember Pi Mai Pi Mai Tang Tu the sitcom? before 'Senario', 'Pi Mai Pi Mai tang Tu' was one of the most favored comedy sitcom ever aired. Among the casts were Sabri Yunus, Ahmad Busu, Imuda, Pak Uda, Angeline Tan, Sathiya, Khatijah Tan and the late Pak Busu. Each with their own personality and comic attraction. Pak Uda with his adult joke and misplaced button, Imuda with his northern accent, Sabri Yunus with his Kelantanese, Sathiya, one of the character that will make u sure laugh and sweet sweet Angeline Tan, people will laugh with her just being her. What make Pi mai pi mai tang tu better than Senario is the 1Malaysia concept, they had it even before DS Najib premiership. Mix races living together dealing with daily issues, each episode is about helping one another regardless race or religion, the key is respect, and what's better they joke about it, it's the icing on the cake. With nowadays tension we should bring back Pi mai pi mai tang tu to

WOMEN'S TALK

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I laugh my evil laugh reading women's talk gossiping each other about work, beauty and children. One have a job but in no mood to work. Whilst another looking for a job, been jobless since graduated. Well good can concentrate on children while doing home business. O good, business makes good money. Actually already frustrated looking for a job. U look slim are u taking something (instead of working out). I myself is selling 'jamu'. i lost a little (weight) only but my customer lost a lot. come see me if u are interested. come another one, owh really are u selling jamu?.... enough. All in all, after graduated these are all we have left to worry about, work, family and health. doesn't everybody miss their student life?

LIFE OF AN INMATE

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Live the life of an inmate. Nothing could avail an incarcerated soul. Deemed with prejudice over reason, of what crime that he committed? an inmate is incarcerate over his own fault, the road he chose in the past. a crime. so he was incarcerated. inspected. deemed with prejudice over all his actions. he 's not free, not allowed to be. his cell, his diary, his letters all been inspected, strip off his necessities of life, privacy and choice. All aspect of his life are deemed with prejudice over reason. That serve him right for the crime he committed. But isn't it awkward to find a benevolent soul, a bright student, a good member of society, a patriot been treated and force to live the life of an inmate? over what crime he did?

WHO DID THE MONKEY

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Mainstream researchers point to substantial evidence that HIV jumped species from African monkeys to humans. So who's dumb enough did the monkey?

ALIENS COME FROM KAYANGAN

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Back in my uni days I've joined a pencak silat that claimed its origin from 'kayangan'. A prince from kayangan was banished to earth in a form of a bird. Then the bird met a meditating man in a cave and taught him the art of self defense and war, pencak silat. Later the meditating man taught this art to an earthling prince and so the art was passed on till today. The eastern Malay and Indonesian folk lore sum ups that people from kayangan did taught earthling of wisdom and breeds the blue blood. It is not new to the east that people from kayangan intervention with earthling, not just in pencak silat, most of the blue bloods also claims their origin from from kayangan, usually from mixed marriage. Now where is this kayangan? Kayangan is a 'place above', pointing up to the sky, if u read eastern Malay and Indonesian folk lore. How above? surely very way above, they would say 'the bar-lick are-want' (beyond the clouds), which mean so high that cannot be

EID MUBARAK

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After the holy month of Ramadhan here comes Eid Fitr to celebrate those who excel from Ramadhan school. Ramadhan taught us: To observe the obligations, "Oh you who believe! Fasting is prescribed to you as it was prescribed to those before you, that you may learn piety and righteousness" (Qur'an, al-Baqarah, 2:183) 2. Empathy toward others, we often felt sympathy to those who eat once a day now we had the chance to wear the same shoes. 3. good manners. as stated in the hadith, " If a person does not refrain from lying and indecent activities, Allah does not want that he should abstain from eating and drinking " Afterward we may become better Muslims in observing Islamic obligations especially Salat, emphaty towards other fellow human being and maintains good manners in our day to day life. Gentlemen Frog and Hizzame would like to wish all of U Eid Mubarak!

LONGING FOR FREEDOM

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I've waited patiently for my freedom not like others who fought for it hence I attained it at the very late of my age. Even thou i had it, i didn't do much about it, just enjoying the solitude. Its a fact that I'm a good person in nature, every where i go people will notice that, but my only regret is why until the end of 'postal age' I'm still reading my own letter as a 'leftover'. I've been longing for my freedom for a long time as a caged-bird who tweets everytime the sun rises. Therefor don't just simply take my freedom away from me, if u only know how i've long for it.

SELF CONSCIOUSNESS

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When u let it out u'll feel better. i felt better already. sometime people just don't get it, just can't differentiate of just being polite, a joke and the truth. This world is full of souls. Soul with emotion that we could not ignore to speak everything truthfully every time. sometime we have to joke about something. sometime we have to be polite about something. sometime we have to utter the truth and truth hurts. we have to evade fact and truth to maintain the balance in the force. Gnothi seauton, know thyself. Knowing oneself is the key to read the world, to figure out the puzzle of life, to constitute the distinction between the distinctive, the torch that led the way out of the mist of confusions to consciousness. You have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition. What you'll discover will be wonderful. What you'll discover is yourself.

IF U LOVE SOMEBODY, TELL HER

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this was taken from another blog.. 10th grade As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. 11th grade The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, s

LAND OF CONFUSION

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There's too much confusion surrounding the people around me lately. Whilst I'm still focus and positive, so hear me out. the last time I give hope to other was a year ago and never since then, never since then. I don't know what makes U think what are u thinking rite now, but clearly it doesn't come from me directly or indirectly through any medium what so ever as far as i remembered. There's nothing going on between us so stop acting like there is. it's a total moonshine. so my advice is, drop it. U're torturing urself and me as well. I don't want to be a part of it, to be claimed in the end a cheater and last but not least, don't get over react by some concern match maker. Take my advice cause i don't use it anyway

HOW'S THE WEATHER IN YOUR PLACE TODAY

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Those who live in Sandakan sure to feel it that the weather today is awkwardly different from all the other day which is sunny and extremely hot even when pissing down with rain. Obviously, today is blessed, its cloudy and humid with no rain all day long and what's better it's the 28 of Ramadhan, is it a coincident, urmm may be it was last night. Lailatul Qadri qairan Min alfi shahr

IMPOSTOR, SIGN OF MENTAL ILLNESS

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A tragedy in Teluk Intan last month, where a husband out of medication takes his family hostage end up killing his own wife, was a classic example of how serious mental illness would be. Eventually, that's a mental patient on medication. lets look at those with sign of mental illness, or at their early stage. Do U often went into Yahoo chat-room after 12 mid night? what do U experience? Lots of nick names dedicated to an early stage psycho, eg: abgnktu, abgnkni, abgktcam etc etc. That is one case we have a little concern about since with that kind of nicks they already told us of what they are and what they're going to do. Worst case scenario is of those with gender disorder. However this exclude the nyah because they're quite a gentlemen coz they will introduce themselves as what they're, the drawback is that they use a woman's nick. Back to the gender confuser whose under what motive posed as women to chat with their same gender. Adding the last straw, the imposto

ONLY FOOLS RUSH IN

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Wise men say, only fools rush in. But I can't help falling in love with you Shall I stay? Would it be a sin? I can't help falling in love with you It was on a friday back in 2008 when we declared our love chewah. i never met her. we were divided between two continents separated by south china sea. Yet it doesn't stop us. I got her number from a friend, since then we've been texting each other every nite till that friday that i decided to declared our love. wise men say only fools rush in. well love takes away reason everybody could be a fool. Like a river flows gently to the sea Darling so we go, some things are meant to be So take my hand take my whole life too For i can't help falling in love with you Really something are meant to be. Fatalism. I wish to give her my heart, but not my life but yes a life. The meeting were meant to be but the continuity I'll need to work on. How low can I go. I didn't go low enough so we broke up a year later. /no

TIME FLIES

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Ramdhan is packing, another seven days and he will take his leave. How time flies, its not just in cartoon that things happen really fast. I swear as if just last moth i've climbed down air asia to start the January, and today is already early September, at the end of 2010. As time flies, I ponder upon my self of what has i've accomplished through out 2010? I want to write a book... emm and it didn't happen. I want to climb Kinabalu... and that also didn't happen. to get married.. well can't find anybody /;)). Is kinda embarrassing meeting old friends of schoolmate and uni mates when the have at least two children and me... /:-s well what did i do despite all the routines. Sigh I'm getting old and yet nothing interesting ever happen to me. I'm tired of waiting... its time i make my stand... I should reach out. Let the hunted becomes the hunter.

WHY HASSAN SKODENG

Blogger 'Hassan Skodeng' to face charge tomorrow The new alliance made a statement and a commitment that if they win over this country they would strip us the Bumis together with our brethren from Sabah and Sarawak off our special rights. Come to think of it we don't have to wait until this new alliance wins since the current government are doing it right now. What is so special about this Namewee guy compares to Hassan Skodeng? What damage that Hassan skodeng inflict compares to that of Namwee? and why TNB never drag this Namewee to court as this clip has been produce even before Hassan skodeng satire? Are we stripping the Bumis rights silently by awarding others special rights?

PEREKA BUSINESS CARD

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Custom made business card Untuk tempahan: Area Kota Bharu, Kelantan dan Sandakan Sabah sahaja. Hubungi kami: pbinjai@yahoo.com Harga: dari RM30 untuk 100 keping.

Penyakit semuanya datang dari perut.

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Petang kelmarin, aku telah menemui sahabat lama ku semasa study dulu di KB Mall. Dia baru balik daripada menemui isterinya yang mengajar di Manek Urai, Kuala Krai. Isterinya seorang guru manakala dia bekerja sebagai pengurus di pasar besar Giant di bandar Kuala Terengganu. "Alang-alang datang KB baik aku jumpa kau terus" kawan aku itu. Tiba-tiba kawan aku itu mengacukan soalan "Killer" kepada aku, "Mung bila nak kawin. Aku anak dua dah, sorang tu dah nak masuk tadika dah. Jangan sampai anak aku nak ambik UPSR baru mung nak kawin" katanya ambil ketawa. "Aku takpe, sedang mencari" jawab ku sambil ketawa. Aku memang tension dengan soalan "Killer" ni, jadi buat bodoh saja la. Hari raya minggu depan lagi la, mesti dihujani lagi dengan soalan itu. Sedang rancak berborak dengan kawan ku itu, sambil memandang akan orang yang lalu lalang tidak kira anak dara atau emak dan bapa kepada anak dara, tiba-tiba kawan aku itu berkata

MY DREAM HOME

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Welcome to my dream home. This is my future living room. This is my future dining room. This is my future study. And finally this is my bedroom.