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Friday, December 17, 2010

DEAR FRIEND



Dear friend,

Be warned, U are not in the right friendship when your 'friend' always says all kind of beautiful things about friendship at the same time enjoys sucking u dry.

One said, Real friend should have everything in common. Yeah right, ur fren just want to live at your expenses, while U work your ass off he turned down every job opportunities at hand, 'waiting' for the right job he said, until u realize it, its already MONTHS of u paying all the bills and he jollies away his days eating, sleeping and dating.

One said, when people are in trouble they should be left alone, and not be bothered. Yes, when u are in need where would u go, to your housemate lah where else, but he wasn't there, shyfully u went elsewhere for loans or just postponed the rent that month. It's surprising to realized that he always wasn't there in time of trouble, awkward yeah?

One said, true friendship, was quite free from selfishness of any kind. True but isn't it awkward or even eerie to find out that u are the only one who is being generous while he keeps on giving the same excuses of waiting for the right job and want to be dependent (don't want to ask his family to contribute in paying the bills).

Lastly, he always speaking quite plainly to you of 'virtues and holiness'... just to cover his indignitious low life of hypocrite ass and parasite way of living on others sweat and tears.

I can't read mind but I knowww, I've been there 4 years ago. (Just got back from a fuming chat)


p/s: will response to tag later.

3 comments:

miss nina said...

be grateful if u have someone /ur fren like this:
Amicu certus in re incerta cernitur

una berry said...

u've been there eyh?
maybe u're really a good person thus that 'self-righteous-friend' was taking advantage on u

whitecappuccino said...

Thank God! I've never experienced having this kind of "friend"..hope not.

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